In Northern Nigeria, what is mainly used in spicing sexual, romantic, and intimate relationships are herbs and perfumes.The herbs are called « kayan mata » ( for women) and « kayan maza » (for men). It has nothing to do with age, so long as you are married and or sexually active as you find that even our fathers and mothers still rely on those things to enhance their performances and relationships…
I remember last year I stumbled unto some of them in my auntie’s bedroom -she is in her mid 60’s- and when I asked her what it was, she said it was traditional mosquito repellant!!!(lol) I had no idea she was still sexually active at that age talk more of using stimulants to enhance her performance and keep her husband tied to her waist.
The products used are 100% herbal and are produced strictly by older women, in most cases because of what it does to the man, they would never sell it to a woman who is not married( and believe me they can tell 99% of the times) for fear of what it will do to another woman’s husband.
In places like Sokoto State, Kebbi State, Gusau, Katsina where it is practiced with so much relish and almost like a religion, the best gift your mother in law can give you when you are brought into her son’s house as a wife are these « kayan mata » it shows a great deal on how much she loves you, and most times when you don’t get it from her as a new bride it is believed you are not liked by her.
Husbands buy it openly for their spouses and in most cases when there is a new rave in town these old women call the men first rather than the women who would haggle in price for they are sure to make more profits from them.
Before a lady gets married time is taken off which can be as little as 2 weeks or as much as 6 months to prepare her down below for her husband.
She is made to drink liquids, insert some, eat some in food, meat and wash down below with some each one of them has its rules and it may not be that easy but the end justifies the means.
The ones for insertion are meant to tighten the vaginal walls and muscles some are so effective that when a woman wants to get married to man she has not had sex with and she is a virgin, she can use them and the man will swear with his life he was the one who disvirgined her.
Whichever one you use, be sure to be highly lubricated or else you will be left with bruises & will have to nurse it for a while (on top of that a man will not let it heal because he can’t stand being away from that place).
The liquid ones you drink are meant to do the job from inside, they work with your hormones to increase sensitivity and thereby making you very very very wet, and warm down there (just the way it feels when u are ovulating- that warmth and increased moistness) at the same time depending on which one would make u extremely hypersexual and untiring, u can go for long long hours having sex and orgasms..The man feels the same way too.
The ones for washing are used in tightening, disinfecting the area to get rid of all unwanted impurities, infections, vaginal odors and discharge, thereby causing an act of cunnilingus to be highly enjoyable by the husband it also leaves long lasting fragrances around the vagina..
The perfumes are used on either the body as body perfumes or used to steam the vagina, they are applied on local clay incense burners and you cover yourself with a cloth while you let the fragrance envelope every part of your body, with special attention to the vagina. This also tightens, deodorizes, and increases sensuality in the woman which the husband will enjoy when they meet..
The ones you eat are used in special foods like meat, cow milk (yoghourt or nono), or eaten alone.
There is one which is made from a young female chicken that has not started laying eggs, it is cooked in these herbs ,leaves and oils and it is believed that it will turn your sexuality to be fresh, vibrant, and active as that of a young chicken. This is used mostly on brides.No bride goes without this particular chicken « kayan mata » concoction.
To be continued.